A gesture
is a gesture
Body language is a discipline about non-verbal behavior, there
are more and more followers of it all over the world. Among
them there are respected scientists who attach less and less
significance to words and places the emphasis in communication
on the role of body language. Reportedly this way it is possible
to tell much more and even to learn much more information
about the partner. Gestures, body language and intonation
affect the communication at a proportion of more than 90%.
Words as such prove to be insufficient in a successful communication.
It seems to be simple, but despite this fact there are still
a great number of inapprehensive men. They don’t pay
attention to the women’s behavior, swallow every word
they say, and muck up the opportunity of further developing
their acquaintances. But women’s gestures are univocal!
The experts of non-verbal behavior can only distinguish two
types of women’s behavior. One carries the information
that the woman does not feel like having sex. The other one
means that she does. So women exploit body language and launch
such codes that men have a very difficult job to tell what
they are thinking of in fact. It would be so palpable to tell
everything using words. I’ll try to help you avoid misunderstandings:
I’ve put together a guide with the help of which beginners
and “advanced users” are able to decode the behavior
of every attractive woman.
1. She pushes her fingers through her hair
Clean and neat hair is as important for a woman as acceptable
height, wide shoulders and biceps for a man. The woman who
grooms her hair with high care expresses that she is full
of energy and feels like doing certain family-friendly activities.
Those that are familiar with body language claim that when
a woman is regulating her hair she tries to call men’s
attention upon herself. If she repeats this activity three
times within a minute you can be sure that she would really
love to be conquered. The way she touches her hair is also
very important. It tells you information about her temperament.
If she does it slowly you have encountered a cunning expert
of the art of love. Quick, nervy movements disclose impatience
or embarrassment.
2. She touches the edge of the glass with her fingers
Freudian psychologists interpret it as a sexual sign. This
theory is supported by the women themselves, who claim that
they deliberately pet the glass, in order to call the chosen
man’s attention upon themselves. When you enter a bar
and see a full-bosomed blonde touching and caressing her martini
glass so that it’d scream, do not think that she is
expressing her musicality this way. Don’t ask her whether
she is playing the latest hit of Iglesias. This question would
not be appropriate. Instead of asking stupid questions, notice
the way she is playing the “musical instrument”.
Elegant, caressing movement is a sign of intrinsic calmness,
self-control and waiting, so sit by her. Her beating a rhythm
on the glass with her nails is a sign of impatience or a broad
hint of SOS, which she’s sending to her boyfriend, who
is fighting for another Bailey’s at the bar.
3. She leans on her elbow
According to Aristotle a woman’s hand tells us the most
information. According to experts of body language women disclose
what they think of us with their gestures. If she leans on
her hand with her chin and her eyes seem to be thinking, it’s
not always the sign of her being impressed by your appearance.
Generally the woman tries to answer her own question this
way: “Does this guy deserve me?” You do know the
answer, but the lady needs time. If you want to help her make
the only right decision, be politely determinate and determinately
polite. Flash your sense of humor as well.
4. She sits back with her arms crossed together
This is the worst possible that you can encounter in a bar
or disco, when you’re out hunting. This gesture is the
evidence of the fact that you’ve had the worst impression
of all on the woman and she doesn’t trust you at all.
Nothing helps here, neither refined jokes, nor nice, muscular
body. The best method at the beginning of the fight for her
grace is to ask her what she’s drinking at the moment.
Don’t buy her a drink for a start because this way she’s
going to think that “this guy has no fantasy at all”.
5. She wets her lips
If a woman wets her lips quite frequently, it’s absolutely
a sexual sign, unless she has herpes. According to anthropologists
women give us to understand that they wouldn’t mind
us putting something between their wet lips. Hope you know
what.
6. She delves in her nose
You’re wrong if you think that this is a sign of her
sexual appetite. Scientist have been arguing for years about
the meaning of this gesture. According to one group of scientists
the lady is underbred. On the other hand the other group thinks
the finger in the nose symbolizes the gross hairs of the thighs
and lap.
7. She lashes her eye-lashes
According to famous experts of the topic and authors of cheap
romantic stories the fast movement of the eye-lashes is the
sign of women who like to conquer men of their own accord.
Besides they are emancipated, who like to take over the duty
of initiation. They aren’t waiting for your jokes and
wide smile. They undertake to initiate. The only problem with
such ladies is that not all of them will enjoy herself in
the role of the doped out game. But if you don’t mind
losing the role of the hunter, swallow the bait.
8. She lets her legs swing
Researchers of body language emphasize that when a woman frequently
crosses her legs or let them swing, is also a sexually charged
movement. The strongest of all these movements is when she
opens her legs without meaning it. It’s a classical
Freudian opening symbol. (You must remember Sharon Stone opening
her legs in such a beautiful way in Basic Instinct.) A contrary
sign to this is when she puts her legs together. You have
to interpret her choosing of shoes in a similar way. It is
very important which pair of shoes she chooses to wear the
given day. The more open the shoes are the more willing she
is to “open”.
9. She dances with her hands
Having gauged the woman’s face and body most men concentrates
on her hands. This is the most natural and normal thing to
do – well-groomed long fingers, well-painted nails are
significant erotic signs. However, the way the woman herself
thinks of her hands is also very important. If she stares
at them for a very long time, it may imply that something
angers her (perhaps you?). if she beats the rhythm on the
table or the bar means a similar state of mind. You think
she’s a wild cat, but you’re wrong. She’s
thinking about a way how she could get rid of you.
10. She bites her lips
When a woman is biting your lips, do not interrupt her –
everything’s alright. But if she’s biting hers,
you may assume that she’s nervous. Why? Perhaps you
are staring at her too quizzing.
+1 Finally
From the paragraphs above you can see that each and every
movement and gesture of a woman carry sexual meaning for a
healthy man.
Feel her soul
You look at the woman and you don’t have the least idea
what she wants from you. If you notice one of the hereunder
mentioned ways of behavior, it means that there’s one
thing that she wants from you, closer acquaintance, or even
maybe sex.
She leers at you, laughs loudly, ogles, wets her lips, knobs
her breasts or hip, listens to you very carefully, walks proudly,
waves her hip, her style is eye-catching, crosses her legs
and then puts them back, hides her face, pushes her fingers
through her hair, enters your private area, touches herself
(smoothes out her stocking or plays with the button of her
blouse), touches the object of her interest, exaggerates her
make-up or perfume, dresses up too elegant, whispers or tries
to create an intimate environment some other way, stares at
you too intensively, gauges you with her eyes and tries to
stay tête-à-tête with you.
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