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So with 20 guys competing for every girl and most girls wanting
cyber or being very very choosy about the guys they meet,
what's the solution? To me the most important thing to do
is play the numbers game. My brother is a great salesman and
he says one of the most important things is to never ever
get disappointed by rejection. You just try and try again.
The solution is to try and make as many "sales calls" as you
can in the limited free time you have. Be efficient with your
time.
I don't know about you but I love browsing adult personals
ads - especially the ones that have photos. If I see a guy
I like I'll often spend 15 or 20 minutes rubbing my clit or
playing with my toy. A lot of guys who reply to my ads say
the same, they love staring at the pic of my shaven slit and
imagine squirting cum all over it.
That's GREAT - it's a real turn on for me to think of hundreds
of guys splattering me with cum. However, this is a lousy
strategy if you're looking to get laid. The more time you
spend fantasising about getting laid the less time you can
spend replying to ads or placing your own ads. So you have
to decide what you want:fantasy or reality.
What I would recommend doing probably doesn't sound very sexy
but will certainly increase your odds of getting a reply:
REPLY TO ALL THE ADS. Don't waste time analyzing all the listings:
what they say, the sexy photos etc. Simply process as many
replies as possible. It's a bit robotic but the idea is this:
Don't take any interest in a girl until she has taken an interest
in you (ie, replied to you). If you get a reply then you can
go back and check out her profile and see if YOU are interested.
Using this strategy you should be able to reply to about 20
or 30 ads in an hour.
Also don't waste time replying to girls who don't live in
your area. Maybe you travel a lot on business and want to
meet women who live in different states. That's great but
don't waste time replying to someone in New York if you live
in LA - that's cyber sex I'm afraid!!
While we're on the subject of picking and choosing who you
reply to I would recommend that you do not reply to girls
under 21. Most are just interested in cyber. The real nymphs
are the divorced women who've maybe just come out of a long
boring relationship or whose husbands have been unfaithful
to them. This group is usually more into getting out and meeting
people rather than sitting at home playing with their clits.
What about married women? A lot of guys get turned on by the
idea of having sex with someone else's wife (if you are there's
a website you should check out: adulterywives.com). I would
say that a lot of married women using personals ads want cybersex.
Those that want the real thing are probably looking for a
very DISCREET guy so you have to handle this group with a
lot of care. They may be really in need of sex but don't want
to lose their marriages. You have to reassure them that you
are also very discreet. Talking about married women...
December 2003
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